People will ask me, How do you deal with this feed­back? Does it hurt you?” And my respon­se is yes, it does. Because if it didn’t hurt me, then I think I would lose the capac­i­ty that I have to write sto­ries that con­nect with peo­ple. If I become immune to the hurt and to the pain, then I can’t write some­thing that moves some­one.